In my daily readings at the moment, I am reading about the life of King David in 2 Samuel. As I read about the opposition that David faced (chapters 15 & 16), from those who he was called to lead and also from individuals who were very close to him, he took flight to try and escape. The story mirrored in many ways some of the stories that we have been hearing from church leaders over the last couple of months.
The common theme we are finding from our conversations, is that the majority of the opposition and criticism they are facing isn't coming from the world, but from within their own churches! They feel that stones and hurtful words are being thrown at them and their families. Unlike many of us (and probably against their better judgement) they have to follow Jesus’ command to turn the other cheek, and the example set by David (2 Samuel 16:11-12) when he choose to leave it all in God’s hands.
While many of us may view the issues being faced by pastors as minor, when you’re on the receiving end of what seems to be a continuous stream of criticism (no matter whether it’s a roaring torrent or a trickle, water will always leave a mark and can cause a huge amount of damage), it all becomes very personal. Add to this the pressures of the last 16 months, together with many having to deal with personal loss as well as loss within their congregations and you are left with a group of men and women who are physically, emotionally and spiritually exhausted just like David was (v.14). We are not told how David refreshed himself. But based on what we read in the Psalms, we know it was through his close relationship with God that he found refreshment.
Sometimes all our leaders need is a kind word of encouragement rather than that lengthy email telling them why their latest sermon or social media post has offended you. Yes, they need to take a break, an opportunity to rest, to be revived and refreshed physically, spiritually and emotionally, but a simple thank you will lift their spirits. They need to know that they have a congregation who value and support them, together with a team of elders and deacons who want to see their church thrive under their pastors leadership.
Remember that when we read that Jesus prayed for the church, that includes all of us today, He prayed that the church may have unity. We should remember that joy comes from unity. Disunity is a joy stealer. Unity is powerful - when individuals and churches unite, it is so attractive to the world around us.
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